What is the main criterion for selecting partners?

What is the main criterion for selecting partners? The sex, the love or the money? The Andrology Institute tries to give …
answer to the question, and this may surprise you.
Security is the one that primarily leads us to choose our partner. And this is not due to the economic crisis, but it always has been, experts say.
Can we live in moments of passion with people that we have fallen in love with, regardless of age, their wallet and their habits, but when it comes to marriage and cohabitation, it falls to anyone who makes us feel safe.
The investigation of the Andrology Institute was 5,000 pairs, which was the period 2011-2016, in people aged from 25 to 65 years of age, in a representative social sample.
The key questions were how important is the love, the sex and the financial security in the choice of sexual partner.
Only 18% considered a significant parameter in the relationship of love.
“So, not to wonder why in the house of our things are not going well,” says the president of the Andrology Institute, Konstantinos Konstantinidis.
“The security relations, with interred the desire and the madness of love, is not the proper prescription for sexual life”.
The findings of the research
The question as to what offers you overall satisfaction in the relationship, 40.7% responded “the security that’s going to give me”. 33% of women say they want a loyal companion, and 26% someone who “cares about me”. Only 28.1% answered “our love life”, while a remarkable rate of 8.3% is interested in the social life of her partner. Of this percentage, 20% gives you base friends partner, and 19% on recreational activities.
Without being clear, it is implied that the economic situation is important for a relationship.
The end of romance
The social experience shows that people, while they know, still they are surprised and comment on why big men prefer young women, but also the other way around, the young men more mature women.
Paraphrasing the famous saying “it is the economy stupid” (“it’s the economy and the survival fool”) could phrasal to explain why there is this inappropriate, logically, a choice unmatched in age and biological of people comment on the head of the study.
“The choice of survival and safe partner was always an instinct feminine, so dominant, that we, however, we were all translating wrong, because of male domination in social, but not biological level.
That is, the woman chose here and hundreds of thousands of years of safe partner and father of her children and no husband, as described in the stereotypes of relations today, where the man seems to have the option, while the substance has already been selected by the woman.
Therefore, the seemingly inappropriate choice of a large man and a small woman is not a recent story, but very old, that has been passed down in our genes,” explains mr Constantinidis.
The age difference
The anthropological studies, and the myths, like the story, confirm that the man, growing up, it was a safe companion for a young woman.
Today it is confirmed, because in the economic system of the great men at the age of ensure a more stable income and a safety survival, which seems to be the choice of young women for a life without problems, notes mr. Κωσταντινίδης and continues:
“The rule is so what it looks like today, out of character, in society acceptable, but with many negative aspects. The old man who bought the freshness is no more than an ancient custom that gene survived and not only”.
In a recent study of 37 nations, with 10,000 respondents, it is confirmed that the predominant choice of young women is always the biggest man, and not the age.
Men were asked about the age difference that they would like to have with their partners, the great majority of them replied that they wanted women ten years younger, while you will put up with a woman older than them by 4 years.
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